Take a mirror and look at yourself. Are you the same woman a month ago? A week ago? Or maybe even yesterday? Well, know that you are gone. Every second you change. You become more loving or colder. You will always find things that you like, that you bring closer to your life and things that you will not like and that you will want to remove. Your life today is not the same as your life yesterday and it certainly will not be the same as your life tomorrow.

Now look at him. And your love for him has changed. So is his love for you. How can you ask him to be the same man you fell in love with if you’re not the woman you were that day? After so long, your dreams, ideals and love can grow together and unite you as strongly as you would have ever dreamed. At the same time, they can separate you if you look in different directions. We live in a world that is constantly changing, and this should not scare or upset us, but help us change for the better.

True love does not always come with those butterflies in your stomach that do not give you peace. True love builds slowly, as people get to know each other more and more. During this time you will know things about him that you will like, but also defects. Well, this is the man! You can’t ask him to be perfect, because he will never succeed. You are not perfect either. God is the only one who is perfect and loves us enormously, who can help us become better and better if we want to.

Don’t blame anyone if he is no longer the one you fell in love with, if he doesn’t have the same plans and dreams he had in the beginning. Look in the mirror and realize that you are someone else, that you have turned your attention to other things and maybe you have both come to neglect yourself. In this situation, there is no single culprit, so don’t look for a knot in the rush and take your share of the blame … and yet, if the damage isn’t permanent, sit down at a table and talk. Talk a lot. If you really care about your relationship, talk and get to know each other again.

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