I expect from him a lot: I expect him to be romantic when I ask him, I expect him to pick me up when I fall, I expect him to do for me what I alone cannot. I expect him to be tender, playful and jokingly fixed in the moments when I feel like him, even though maybe he had a full day and he also wants a little peace. And of course, I expect it not to stress me out when I want to relax. And I expect … and the list goes on and on.

Well, in a relationship, all of the above are perfectly normal. Your partner has promised to be by your side for better or worse. Everything is wonderful! … if we talk about reciprocity. However, no matter how much I wish I could deny this, there are times when pride (or circumstances) hinder us and do not allow us to be the perfect lovers and reward, in our turn, the one who loves us so much. for a long time and that deserves all the best from us.

It’s not bad to please him from time to time … Even if you don’t like a certain food, include it in dinner if you know he would like to eat it. Even if you don’t necessarily appreciate his music, let him give it his best without yelling at him that it pollutes you … Even if you want to dress up, find the time to wear that dress. which he appreciates so much on your body. It is not difficult…

Even if there are circumstances that will “help” you not to take the right steps in your relationship, do not be afraid to apologize! Don’t do nonsense intentionally, just for the sake of showing who the boss is, because you’ll only have to lose … him. He does not hide his needs, fears, desires, but neither your mistakes and do not blame him for your actions. Change in yourself what you know needs to be changed, even if it means putting aside a good chunk of pride. Don’t aspire to be proud when you make a mistake, but apologize. Take care of your love, because it’s the most beautiful thing you can ask for in life …

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