Are you a long-term project for him?
Take time just for yourself and think about what you want. Try to be objective and think about who you want to be with for what he is, without attributing qualities to him, without thinking about what words he never said would sound in his mouth and that he probably won’t. ever said.
Once you have formed your idea of the life you want to have, ask him if he sees the main character in it. If you’ve been with him for a while, maybe you’ve already figured out what kind of person he is and what place you hold in his life … or maybe not. In both cases, call him to a meeting. Be open with him and tell him how you see life, and then ask him if he has any other ideas. If you are afraid of how he will react, if you know he wants something else, try to see if you can reach a compromise so that you are both happy. But if you can’t be honest with him, you should think about whether he is the man you can stay with for a lifetime, if he is the man you can be with without fear.
Don’t get me wrong if your dreams are different from his! The only thing that should make you think is his desire to have you in his life. If he doesn’t know if he is willing or not to fight for your relationship to the end, let him decide and make a wise decision together! Although it may hurt at the moment, knowing that it is right for yourself to be aware of your worth in his eyes and to leave if it does not satisfy you.
Don’t be afraid to change! You will have the life you want with a man who can truly love you forever, who will be proud to be his. When goals fit, nothing will ever get in your way!
