I’d babysat my SIL’s daughter many times. At dinner one night, we talked about careers. When I said I’m a receptionist, she laughed and said, “That’s not real work.” I waited for her to say she was joking, but she didn’t. Later, while clearing dishes, she added with a shrug, “I mean, anyone can answer phones and smile. Itโs not like you need a degree for that.”
Her words stung, but I smiled politely. I didnโt say much. No point in starting drama over dinner. Still, it hurt more than I cared to admit. Iโd always tried to support her, even when her life was a rollercoaster.
Her name was Liana. My brother married her three years ago. She was beautiful, loud, and proud of her corporate titleโMarketing Strategist at some mid-size firm. Always dressed like she was walking out of a fashion catalog.
Meanwhile, I wore scrubs or basic blouses to work, handled the front desk at a dental office, and paid my bills on time. I didnโt wear heels or carry a MacBook. But I was proud of the life Iโd built, even if it wasnโt flashy.
Liana, though, had a way of making people feel small without even trying. Or maybe she was trying. Hard to say. Either way, that night was the first time I saw her judgment turn sharp.
After dinner, while the others chatted in the living room, I helped her rinse the plates. She sighed loudly and said, โYou know, you should think about going back to school or something. Youโre smart. No offense, but reception work wonโt get you anywhere long-term.โ
I nodded, tight-lipped. I couldโve listed all the skills my job actually required. The multitasking, the emotional labor, the organization, the patience with difficult patients and last-minute changes. But I didnโt.
Instead, I smiled and said, โThanks for the advice,โ even though I didnโt ask for it.
Over the next few weeks, I tried to brush it off. I still babysat little Zoey, her daughter, every other weekend. She was six, full of sass and stories, and adored me. Honestly, I loved that kid like my own.
But something shifted in me. Lianaโs words lingered, like smoke that wouldnโt clear.
One day, at work, a patient asked, โSo, is this your forever job?โ I smiled and answered like I always did. โFor now, yeah. I love it here.โ
But that night, I lay in bed thinking. Not because I agreed with Liana, but because I realized Iโd been coasting. I liked my job, sure, but Iโd stopped dreaming. I used to write poetry in college. Iโd wanted to work in publishing once. Life had justโฆ settled into a routine.
A week later, I enrolled in a free online writing course. Just to dip my toes back in. At first, I did it in secret. Didnโt even tell my brother.
Writing again lit a fire in me. I wrote poems, short stories, even a few essays. One of my instructors messaged me privately and said, โYouโve got a strong voice. Ever consider submitting your work?โ
That gave me butterflies.
I started sending pieces to small magazines, websites, anywhere that would take a submission. I got rejectionsโlots of them. But then one day, I got a yes. A piece about working-class pride got accepted by a womenโs lifestyle blog. They paid me $50.
I cried when I got the email. Not because of the money, but because someone thought my words mattered.
I printed it and framed it in my room.
Meanwhile, Liana kept being Liana. Bragging about work trips to New York, passive-aggressively commenting on my clothes, and suggesting I โnetwork more.โ
But karma has a funny way of balancing things.
One Friday night, my brother called me, whispering into the phone like he didnโt want to be overheard. โHeyโฆ can you watch Zoey tomorrow? Liana has a job interview. She didnโt tell anyone, but she got laid off last week.โ
I blinked. โLaid off?โ
โYeah. Marketingโs downsizing everywhere. Sheโs been stressing out.โ
I agreed to babysit, of course. Zoey stayed the night, and we baked cupcakes and watched cartoons. She told me, in her kid voice, โMommy was crying last night, but Daddy said itโs not my fault.โ
My heart twisted a little.
The next morning, while Zoey painted at the kitchen table, I brewed coffee and scrolled through job boards. I wasnโt looking for meโI was just curious. Thatโs when I saw it: a listing for a part-time editorial assistant at a small publishing house. Entry-level, remote-friendly, and perfect for someone with basic writing and admin skills.
I stared at it. Then I clicked “Apply.”
Three weeks later, I got the job.
I reduced my receptionist hours and started working part-time for the publisher. It was a pay cut at first, but I made it work. I still babysat Zoey when needed.
One evening, while dropping her off, Liana opened the door with a tight smile. She looked tired, in a bathrobe, her hair in a messy bun. Nothing like her usual self.
โThanks again,โ she muttered.
โNo problem,โ I said. I hesitated, then added, โI actually started a second job. Writing.โ
Her eyes flicked up. โReally?โ
โYeah. Assistant at a small publisher. I still work reception, but Iโm writing on the side.โ
She gave a short nod. โThatโsโฆ cool.โ
It wasnโt much, but I felt a strange satisfaction. Not revengeโjust validation.
Months passed. Liana struggled to find full-time work. Marketing roles were drying up, especially at her salary range. Meanwhile, my writing grew. I had two essays go semi-viral on Medium, and one of my short stories was accepted into a print anthology.
That story paid me $400.
At my receptionist desk, Iโd scribble ideas during lunch. Iโd work late at home, editing and researching. I wasnโt famous, but I was fulfilled.
One day, my office manager at the dental clinic pulled me aside. โYouโve been amazing these past few years,โ she said, โbut I can tell your heartโs somewhere else. If you ever want a reference for full-time writing work, Iโd be happy to help.โ
I almost cried.
A month later, I transitioned fully into writing and editing. It wasnโt glamorous, but it was mine.
Then came the twist I didnโt expect.
Liana reached out. She messaged me one morning asking if we could meet for coffee. Sheโd found a temp job doing admin work and said she needed to talk.
I almost said no. But I remembered how broken she looked that night Zoey stayed with me. So I agreed.
We met at a quiet cafรฉ downtown. She lookedโฆ different. No designer clothes. No fake lashes. Just a tired mom with a humble look in her eyes.
โI owe you an apology,โ she said.
I blinked.
โBack thenโฆ I said some awful things about your job. About you. I was insecure. I thought my job made me important. But when I lost itโฆ no one cared. No one at the company checked in. I was just a number.โ
I sipped my coffee, letting her continue.
โYouโฆ you always showed up. For your job. For Zoey. For our family. And now youโre doing what you love.โ She paused. โI just wanted to say I was wrong.โ
For a moment, I didnโt know what to say. Then I smiled. โThanks. That means a lot.โ
She looked down. โAlsoโฆ do you think you could help me fix up my resume? Maybe write a cover letter? Iโm not good with words like you are.โ
That surprised me.
But I said yes. Not because she deserved it, but because thatโs who I am.
We sat there for another hour, working on her resume together. I didnโt gloat. I didnโt bring up her old comment. I just helped her.
Over the next few months, she found a stable job in a nonprofit. Less pay, but meaningful work. And she seemed happier.
Our relationship slowly healed. Not best friends, but better.
The twist, really, wasnโt that I proved her wrong. It was that life humbled her, and she chose to grow instead of harden.
And me? I kept writing. I published my first chapbook a year later. A small press picked it up. I dedicated it to โevery woman who was ever told her job didnโt matter.โ
The biggest lesson I learned? You donโt have to shout your worth. Just live it. Be consistent. Stay kind. Let your work speak louder than anyone elseโs judgment.
Because real work? It’s not about titles or suits. Itโs about showing up, doing your best, and staying true to who you areโeven when others donโt get it.
So if youโve ever been made to feel small for what you do, remember: your value isnโt measured by someone elseโs opinion.
Keep doing your thing. Quietly. Boldly.
And one day, the world will catch up.
If this story touched you, share it with someone who needs the reminder. And donโt forget to like it if you believe every job has dignity.




