Hello there, dear readers! It’s Mary here, bringing you another cheerful yet thought-provoking piece on a subject that’s near and dear to many of us—marriage and the quirky habits that make the happiest couples. Now, hold your horses! If you think this is some new-fangled mumbo-jumbo, stick around. I promise you’ll be chuckling by the end of it.

Speaking Your Own Language

First off, let’s chat about couples who practically speak their own language. You know what I’m talking about! Those endearing nicknames and funny little phrases that only make sense to the two of you. My George and I have our own set, and let me tell you, nothing sends him into hysterics like calling him my “Snuggle Bunny” in front of the grandkids. It’s these little bits of shared silliness that glue a marriage together.

Praying Together

Now, if there’s one thing we can’t overlook, it’s the importance of praying together. Couples who kneel together stay together, folks! It’s in the Bible, after all. Every evening before bed, George and I make sure to take a few moments to thank the Lord for our blessings and pray for guidance. It’s a habit that not only brings us closer to God but also closer to each other. Give it a try; you might just find it’s the secret sauce your marriage needs.

Competing in Silly Games

Another quirky habit of happy couples is engaging in little competitions and games. George and I have this ongoing contest each fall on who can carve the best pumpkin. Spoiler alert: I usually win, but we both get a kick out of it. It doesn’t have to be anything elaborate—board games, card games, even silly little challenges. The laughter and fun build camaraderie like nothing else.

A Sense of Humor

This brings me to humor. Let’s face it, folks, life can be tough. What makes it manageable is a good old sense of humor. George has this knack for making silly faces that never fail to bust me up. I remember one time he walked into the kitchen wearing a colander as a hat! Fifteen years of marriage, and he still has me doubling over with laughter. Find your own silly things, folks. They’re gold.

Surprise! Talking to Inanimate Objects

And here it is, the habit that’ll surprise you. One of the quirkiest and surprisingly effective things happy couples do is—wait for it—talk to inanimate objects. Yes, you read that right. George and I often find ourselves chatting with our plants or even our car, affectionately named ‘Betsy’. If you think that’s odd, remember this: it’s not about what you talk to, it’s about the bond and shared whimsy it creates!

Shared Faith

Our faith isn’t just our rock; it’s our roll, too! We love attending church together, reading scriptures, and even embarking on little spiritual studies. Every time we dive into the Good Book, we discover something new, something that knits our souls a tad bit tighter. It’s like a divine treasure hunt that never ends.

Those Little Rituals

Lastly, let’s not forget those small rituals. George has this habit of bringing me a cup of tea every morning, a tradition he started some 20 years ago. It’s such a simple gesture, but I look forward to it every day. These little acts tell your partner, “Hey, I took this moment to think about you,” and believe me, they add up!

Well, there you have it, folks! By adopting these quirky and cherished habits, you might just find yourself more connected, more in love, and yes, even happier. Don’t knock it until you try it. If my George and I can manage to keep the love fires burning bright after all these years, so can you.

So, if you’ve made it this far, take a leaf out of our book and embrace that shared silliness, find solace in prayer, keep the humor alive, and don’t shy away from those endearing, albeit peculiar, habits. They could very well be the secret ingredients to a joyful, love-filled marriage. God bless!

– Mary

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