The first thing he said when we met was, “You’ve got his eyes.” I nearly choked on my coffee.
I found Ramón through a casting site. Fifty bucks an hour, ex-theater guy, “good with tears and tuxedos.” I needed someone to walk me down the aisle. My mom refused to invite my real father—said he’d “lost that right” years ago. I barely remembered him. Just that he left when I was six, and my birthday cards stopped when I turned nine.
Ramón was perfect. Kind eyes, warm voice, didn’t flinch when I gave him the backstory. We rehearsed once in my backyard. He called me “mija” by accident, then apologized. I didn’t mind. It felt… weirdly nice.
At the rehearsal dinner, he made a toast that made three people cry, including my uncle who never cries. By the time we got to the ceremony, everyone assumed he was real family. Even my mom didn’t question it.
After the reception, Ramón asked if I wanted to grab a late-night bite—said it was on him. We ended up at a 24-hour diner, still in our wedding clothes, sharing pancakes. That’s when he told me.
He knew my father.
Hadn’t just met him—knew him. Said they worked together years ago, loading cargo at the docks. Said my dad talked about me all the time. Showed off pictures.
Said he hadn’t vanished the way I’d been told. Said something happened that changed everything.
I sat there, gripping my fork, syrup dripping down my wrist. Ramón looked like he’d been waiting years to say it.
“He didn’t abandon you,” he said, gently. “He got into trouble. The kind you don’t bounce back from easily.”
Apparently, my dad—Reinaldo—had gotten mixed up in some warehouse theft scheme. Small-time stuff at first. But then someone got hurt during a job gone wrong. Ramón didn’t give me all the details, just that my dad took the fall to protect someone else. A younger guy. New father.
He did five years. And when he got out, he tried to reach us.
My mom never mentioned any of this. I remembered the last letter I ever got from him—written in shaky, blocky handwriting, no return address. I was nine.
Ramón said he saw my dad a couple times after he got out. Said Reinaldo looked broken but still asked about me every time. Showed him a tiny drawing I made in kindergarten, kept folded in his wallet.
“He said your mom never returned his calls. Letters came back unopened.”
I just sat there. Feeling like the ground under me had tilted slightly.
“Why didn’t he come find me?” I asked.
Ramón hesitated. “He was ashamed. And afraid. Thought maybe you were better off without him.”
We didn’t talk much after that. He offered to drive me home, and I let him. On the ride back, I stared out the window thinking of all the birthdays, the graduations, the college move-in day. I’d always told myself he just didn’t care. That he’d picked something—or someone—else over me.
But maybe that wasn’t the whole story.
That night I didn’t sleep. I lay in bed in my wedding dress until sunrise, replaying everything Ramón had said. My new husband, Paulo, was snoring softly beside me, one arm flopped over my stomach. He had no idea any of this was going on.
Two days later, I called Ramón.
I asked him if he knew where Reinaldo was now.
There was a long pause. Then he said, “I think I can find out.”
By the next weekend, I had an address. A small town four hours south, near the state line. He said he couldn’t promise anything, that Reinaldo might not want to see me. But I told him I just needed to know.
I didn’t tell Paulo I was going. I said I was visiting an old friend from college. I wasn’t ready to bring anyone else into it—not yet.
I drove down alone on a warm Sunday. The kind of day that looks happier than you feel. The house was small, faded yellow siding, front porch half-sagging. There was a red cooler on the step and an old radio playing Spanish ballads through the window.
I knocked three times.
A man answered.
He was thinner than I remembered. Hair mostly gone, but the eyes—same as mine. Same as Ramón said.
He stared at me for a long time. I don’t think he recognized me at first. Or maybe he just couldn’t believe it.
“Hi,” I said, voice cracking. “It’s… me. Liana.”
His knees buckled a little, like he might fall. He grabbed the doorframe and just looked at me. No words. Just tears, pooling fast.
We talked on his porch for two hours.
He told me everything. About the job. The prison. The letters that came back with “Return to Sender” stamped in red. The time he stood across the street from my high school graduation, watching from behind a tree.
“I didn’t want to ruin it for you,” he said. “You looked so happy. So grown up.”
I cried harder than I had in years. Not just for what he missed, but for how long I’d hated him without knowing the truth.
It didn’t fix everything in one afternoon. But it cracked the wall.
We started writing after that. Real letters, back and forth. Then phone calls. Then eventually, visits.
I told Paulo the truth not long after. He listened quietly, then hugged me like I was something fragile but worth protecting.
My mom didn’t take it well.
When I finally told her, she shut down completely. Said I was “inviting trouble.” Said Reinaldo had “made his bed.”
I tried to tell her the full story. She wouldn’t hear it. Just said, “You were a child. I did what I thought was best.”
We didn’t talk for three weeks after that.
But here’s the thing—she came around.
It happened slowly. First she asked how I was. Then she asked how he was. Then one day, out of nowhere, she said, “Maybe I was too angry for too long.”
I invited her to lunch with him and me last fall. It was awkward at first. She barely looked at him. But when she did, her eyes softened, just a little.
“You’ve aged,” she said.
“Prison will do that,” he replied.
They both laughed. Not much, but enough.
Ramón stayed in my life, too. We invited him to Thanksgiving. My family loved him. He brought his partner, a retired pastry chef named Luís who made the best flan I’ve ever tasted.
Funny how a lie—hiring a fake dad—led me to my real one.
Sometimes, I wonder what would’ve happened if Ramón hadn’t said anything. If we’d just eaten those pancakes and gone our separate ways.
But he did. Because he saw something. And cared enough to speak.
I asked him once why he did it. Why he got involved.
He said, “I saw a girl who needed her father. And a man who never stopped missing his daughter.”
That stuck with me.
This whole thing taught me that people are rarely just one thing. My mom wasn’t just angry. My dad wasn’t just absent. Even I wasn’t just the abandoned kid—I’d become someone who believed a lie because it was easier than facing a messy truth.
But sometimes, when you pull at the messy threads, you find something real.
Something worth holding onto.
So yeah. I hired a fake dad.
But I got my real one back.
And somehow, that made the whole crazy thing worth it.
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