After My Difficult Labor, My MIL Gave Only My Husband a Gift, Saying He Deserved It Most Because He’s the Breadwinner

I was exhausted after 36 hours of labor when my mother-in-law, Linda, entered the room with a lavish gift. But instead of acknowledging me or our newborn son, she handed it to my husband, Ethan, declaring that he deserved it more because he’s the breadwinner. This hurtful moment forced Ethan to make a decision, placing a strain on our relationship.

A man standing in a hospital holding a gift | Source: Amomama

As I held my precious baby in my arms, the culmination of our journey towards parenthood, Ethan sat beside me, his touch comforting and warm. He whispered, “Caroline, you brought him into this world. You did it.” And in that moment, all the pain of our struggles and losses faded away. We had finally triumphed.

But our tranquility shattered when Linda barged through the door, her energy filling the room, overpowering our intimate space. She held a flashy gift box with a large bow and a grin that suggested she had just won a prize. A flicker of hope sparked within me as I wondered if this time she had come to show support and love for us, for the baby, or even for me.

In my mind, I envisioned Linda placing the gift on the bed, gently touching her grandson’s cheek for the first time, and perhaps even looking at me with kindness in her eyes. I yearned for her approval after all these years, for some recognition of the hardship we had endured. But my hopes were quickly crushed as she breezed past us, her attention solely on Ethan.

She presented the gift to him as if she were crowning him king, proclaiming that he was now a father and the head of the family. Linda insisted that he had carried the “real burden” because he was the breadwinner, keeping everything together. I was left feeling invisible, diminished to nothing more than a vessel, while Ethan was bestowed with a crown.

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My frustration and hurt swelled within me. How could she say those words? Didn’t she realize the pain we had both endured? We had both carried the burden, side by side. But Linda, in her dismissive attitude, reduced me to mere functionality.

Her gaze shifted towards me for a moment, a dismissive glance that cut through me like a knife. She belittled my role, claiming that I had only done my job, as if bringing our child into the world was nothing more than a duty. Her words felt like a punch to the gut, leaving me gasping for air.

To my dismay, Ethan didn’t object. Instead, he thanked his mom with a broad grin and hugged her. I felt invisible and heartbroken, forgotten on what should have been the most important day of my life. The tears welled up, and I turned my head to hide my pain, wishing I could disappear.

Linda, as always, noticed my vulnerability. She reveled in it, relishing her small victory over me. With a syrupy voice, she told me to rest and that I had done my part. But her words rang hollow, a cruel reminder of her lack of understanding and compassion.

In that moment of silence, where my pain and frustration threatened to consume me, I caught a flicker of hesitation on Ethan’s face. His brow furrowed, and his gaze shifted between me and his mom. Was he finally going to stand up to her?

With a small, unexpected smile, Ethan revealed a gift he had prepared for Linda. It was a cheap plastic keychain that read, “World’s #2 Grandma.” Linda’s anticipation turned into confusion and barely contained fury as she looked at the underwhelming gift.

Ethan remained calm and resolute, not flinching under his mother’s glare. He confronted her, expressing his disappointment in her behavior towards me. He declared that if she couldn’t respect me, she couldn’t be a part of our family. Linda was stunned, unable to find a response.

As I sat there, overwhelmed by a mix of emotions, Ethan took my hand and apologized for not standing up to his mother sooner. He realized that by staying quiet, he had allowed her behavior to persist. I appreciated his acknowledgement and pleaded with him never to leave me to fight these battles alone again.

He embraced me, and I finally let go of all the emotions that had built up inside me. The tears flowed freely, not from sadness, but from the release of all the pain and frustration. Ethan assured me that he would always be there for me.

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In that moment, I felt a glimmer of hope for our future as a united front, free from the toxic influence of Linda’s hurtful actions. We were no longer alone in this fight, and together, we would create a loving and supportive family for our precious baby.

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