When my son was 5 or 6, he used to call a news anchor on TV โDaddy!โ
My wife would smile and say that kids live in their own world.
Years later, the same guy was on TV.
I joked, โCome see your TV dad!โ My son turned pale. He turned to me and said, โDad, this man isโฆ the one who used to pick me up from school.โ
I laughed. โWhat are you talking about? I picked you up from school. Or your mom. No one else.โ
He didnโt laugh with me. He looked serious. Scared even.
โI thought it was youโฆ when I was little. But I remember now. He used to say he was helping you. That you were busy at work.โ
I felt a lump in my throat. โWhat do you mean he picked you up?โ
He nodded slowly. โA few times. Not every day. He had a black car. He gave me candy.โ
My wife, Meira, was in the kitchen. I called her in. Told her everything. Her eyes widened.
โAre you saying someone else picked him up?โ she asked, barely above a whisper.
I turned back to my sonโKien. He was seventeen now. Confident, level-headed. Not the kind of kid who made up stories. He wasnโt grinning. He wasnโt playing. His hands were shaking.
โWhy are you only remembering this now?โ I asked, not accusing himโjustโฆ trying to make sense of it.
โI donโt know. I saw his face, and something clicked. I remembered the smell of his car. Mint andโฆ cigarettes.โ
We sat in silence for a moment.
I picked up my laptop, searched the guyโs name. Lars Deylan, a local anchor. I never thought much of him beforeโgeneric smile, overly perfect hair, always wearing suits a little too tight.
His bio popped up. โAward-winning journalist. Former foster youth advocate. Father of two.โ Blah blah blah.
Then something caught my eye. In 2010โaround the time Kien wouldโve been in kindergartenโLars did a segment on school safety and โunauthorized child pickup cases.โ
What the hell?
I emailed the school to check if anyone else had ever been listed on Kienโs authorized pickup list. Just us. No Lars. No one resembling him.
But how would a stranger get access to our kid? Why would he?
We went to the police. They asked Kien to give a full account. He didnโt remember exact dates, but he recalled two specific afternoons.
One detail hit me like a punch: โHe told me you were stuck in a meeting and asked me not to tell Mom because itโd make her worried.โ
They pulled some old surveillance footage from the schoolโyes, they still had archives from that year, miraculously. No clear face, but there was a black Volvo seen pulling up near the side exit, where some kids snuck out for pick-up shortcuts.
Still, the police said without a direct accusation or clear evidence, there was little they could do. Lars had a clean record. No complaints. No charges.
Thatโs when something unexpected happened.
Meira sat me down that night. โI think I need to tell you something. About when I was pregnant with Kien.โ
I stared at her.
She continued, โYou remember I volunteered at that community journalism workshop, right? The one downtown? Lars was a guest speaker. We got close. Not that closeโbutโฆ there was one night. We were both drinking. I donโt think it meant anything. I honestly didnโt even think about it again. Until now.โ
My stomach dropped. โAre you saying Lars could beโฆ?โ
She shook her head. โI donโt know. I never told you because I thought it was just a dumb mistake. But if he thoughtโif he suspectedโI donโt know. Maybe he was trying to see if Kien looked like him.โ
Everything started swirling together in my head. What if Lars did think Kien was his? What if he was trying toโฆ what? Secretly be involved?
I reached out to Lars directly. Sent a message through a burner email. Told him someone came forward claiming he picked up a child under false pretenses, years ago, and we were gathering information.
He never responded.
But a week later, he announced his resignation from the network. โTo spend more time with family,โ he said during his last segment. His face never wavered. That same polished expression.
The police didnโt pursue it. There just wasnโt enough.
But we knew.
Meira and I sat Kien down again and told him the truthโat least what we could piece together. He took it better than I expected. He even joked, โGuess I really did have a TV dad.โ
We offered to get a DNA test. He said he didnโt need it.
โYou raised me,โ he said. โThatโs all I need to know.โ
And honestly, that broke me a little.
Because yeah, I wasnโt sure if Iโd been lied to for 17 yearsโฆ but the way he said that, it reminded me what really mattered.
It didnโt matter how things began. It mattered who showed up every day. Who stayed when it was hard. Who sat with him through fevers, heartbreaks, and science projects.
It mattered who loved him.
Family isnโt always about blood. Sometimes itโs about who chooses to be thereโeven when itโs hard, even when you donโt have all the answers.
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