I’ll never understand how being single and not dating anyone got such a bad rap. Personally, I’ve always felt my best when I’m single and doing my own thing. No emotional attachments, no drama, no need to compromise. And let’s be honest, who actually enjoys sharing a bed? ️

There’s a certain satisfaction in flying solo. I am my own person, have full control over my life, and thrive in my independence. Even as a former Mrs., there were parts of me that longed for the single me because single me absolutely flourished. And I genuinely believe anyone can, with the right mindset.

These days, being single is more common than ever. Back in 2014, the Bureau of Labor Statistics revealed that singles comprised a whopping 50.2 percent of the U.S. adult population, a historical high! A Gallup poll that same year noted that 64 percent of 18- to 29-year-olds were loving the single life. So while society may be obsessed with pairing off, legions are fully embracing their solo status.

Being in love is wonderful, no doubt. But being single? Single is sexy too. Here are 11 reasons why:

1. Independence Is Sexy

Sure, you can be independent in a relationship. But singlehood is prime time for real independence. No need to rely on anyone, and you can do things your way, every day.

2. Realizing You’re Wearing That Lace Underwear For Only You Is Sexy

Every day is sexy underwear day, relationship or not. Why? Because it makes you feel fantastic. And who cares if you’re the only one seeing it? Confidence, darling!

3. Sexual Freedom Is Sexy

Kiss that hottie at the bar, bring ‘em home, or have a fling with the gorgeous coworker. Being single means you own your sexuality, and how fabulous is that?

4. Taking Yourself On Fancy Dates Is Sexy

I adore dating myself. Knowing what I enjoy means my solo dates often outshine those with suitors. Dinner for one at a swanky joint? Bring on the champagne and leave the insecurities at home.

5. Spending Your Money However You Want Is Sexy

Financial independence? Hot. Spoil yourself, invest wisely, pad that retirement fund — nothing screams sexy louder than financial stability and foresightedness.

6. Traveling Alone Is Sexy

Travel broadens the mind, but going solo? That’s an adventure. Meet new faces, explore cultures solo, and perhaps indulge in a beachside flirtation. Got frequent flier miles? Use them!

7. Immersing Yourself In Your Interests Is Sexy

Being single means you can dive into whatever you love. Write that novel, take up sculpting, or even start that stamp collection. Your time, your rules.

8. Having So Much Time To Explore Your Sexuality Is Sexy

Masturbation is educational. It’s how we truly discover our turn-ons and offs. Relationships or not, knowing yourself intimately is crucial.

9. Making Plans For Your Future Is Sexy

Confidence is sexy, and so is being a go-getter with a plan. You’re in charge of your destiny, and that’s irresistibly attractive.

10. Sleeping Alone Is Sexy

Yes, cuddling is cozy, but solo sleep is blissful. No sharing the covers, wearing the quirkiest PJs, and indulging in a book or vibrator without interruption. It’s amazing.

11. Learning To Love Yourself Is Super Sexy

Self-love grows immensely when your primary focus is yourself. It’s an essential cornerstone to living your best life.

Carrie Bradshaw once said, “The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous.