12 Signs He Is Not In Love With You, It’s Lust
I came across an interesting article online and felt it would be helpful to share some insights with those who might be experiencing these signs in their relationship. Whether you’re a woman noticing these behaviors or a man recognizing yourself in them, this guide might resonate with your current situation.
Feel free to leave comments if you’ve experienced any of these signs and share how you dealt with it. Men, if you recognize any behaviors mentioned, share your thoughts as well.
Want to know whether he is in love with you or you’re just convenient? Look out for these signs and you will get your answers:
1. He Never Opens Up Emotionally
True love involves deep emotional sharing. If he isn’t opening up to you, it’s a sign he may not feel that deep emotional connection.
2. He Only Seems Close When He Wants Physical Intimacy
A change in his behavior, acting all sweet and affectionate only when he seeks physical intimacy, suggests his feelings are driven more by lust than love.
3. He Keeps in Touch with His Ex(s)
If he maintains contact with an ex, it might indicate he isn’t fully invested in your relationship. This behavior could be a red flag that he’s keeping his options open.
4. You Sometimes Feel Like a Stranger Around Him
A lack of warmth and connection can leave you feeling like an outsider, suggesting he may not be as interested in you as he should be in a loving relationship.
5. He Only Knows You on a Surface Level
If he doesn’t strive to know the real you and remains superficial, it could be because he sees you as convenient rather than a significant part of his life.
6. He Always Walks Away from an Argument
Someone who values you and your relationship will engage in resolving conflicts. Walking away from arguments might mean he doesn’t care enough to fight for your relationship.
7. He Never Seems to Care About Where the Relationship is Going
A man invested in a relationship usually shows interest in its future. Indifference towards the direction of your relationship might imply he doesn’t see it as more than a temporary arrangement.
8. He Never Seems Concerned About You
Love involves care and protection. If he doesn’t show concern for you, it’s probably because he doesn’t feel that deep emotional connection.
9. He Spends More Time with Friends Than You
Choosing friends over potential quality time with you could indicate that he doesn’t prioritize your relationship as much as you’d hope.
10. He Never Seems Invested in the Moment
Special moments arranged with love should be appreciated and cherished. If he appears indifferent during these times, it could be a sign he doesn’t feel the same way you do.
11. You Have Never Met His Family
Meeting the family typically signifies serious commitment. If he hasn’t introduced you to his family, it might be because he isn’t serious about your relationship.
12. You Have Just Got an Overall Bad Feeling
Sometimes, your instincts tell you the truth your heart isn’t ready to accept. If you consistently feel unimportant and undervalued, it may be time to assess the true nature of his feelings for you.
Remember, you deserve to be with someone who truly loves you and makes you feel special. Trust your intuition and be brave enough to ask the tough questions about where you stand in the relationship.
