Often, we think that men are straightforward and less focused on words. But, that’s just stereotypes and social expectations that men have to deal with.

Men are often perceived as more “manly” if they are serious, stoic, and less communicative. However, language holds great power: it helps us communicate and express ourselves in many ways, whether subtly, boldly, or frankly.

Here are 8 sentences that men usually say when they really, truly love you:

1. It reminds me of you

This phrase shows that even when you’re apart, he’s thinking of you. Something popped up that made him remember you. Your man’s mind has started mapping memories of you, connecting certain patterns, scents, symbols, and experiences to you.

2. I can help you with that.

If he offers help, it means he wants to be needed by you. Whether he’s giving advice or physically assisting you, if he’s going out of his way to help, he wants to show he’s dependable. Essentially, he’s saying you can trust him.

Personally, I find this phrase incredibly sweet. There’s something attractive about someone who gives good advice because I’m used to figuring things out on my own. It’s nice to step back and appreciate that I don’t always have to handle everything by myself.

3. I’m here for you.

When he says this, it means he wants to be part of your life. It’s similar to when he offers help—he’s showing reliability. If he tells you that he’s there for you, he’s encouraging you to let your walls down, fostering a stronger bond and turning “me” into “we.”

4. I miss you

By telling you that he misses you, he shows he cares. This isn’t the case if he only messages late at night. But if you’re away, on vacation, or on a business trip, and he says he misses you, he’s saying your absence is felt and it makes him sad.

5. You’re beautiful.

If he’s naturally flirtatious and says this too soon, you’re probably not the only one he’s complimenting. However, if he’s selective with compliments and doesn’t comment on your looks often, then he means it genuinely. He’s appreciating you inside and out.

I can usually tell when men are only interested in me physically if they say this too quickly. It’s easy to spot, and it doesn’t work on me. But if a guy waits until he knows me better—my beliefs, how I think, my life goals—then the phrase means much more.

6. I’m worried.

If he tells you he’s worried about something in his life, he’s opening up and being vulnerable. By letting you in, he’s showing trust. Or if the worry is about you, it shows he cares deeply and wants the best for you.

7. I like/love/am in love with you.

This is the most obvious one. By boldly saying this, he’s putting himself at risk of feelings not being returned. Yet, he’s choosing to express his feelings freely because you’ve made a strong impression on him.

8. He gave you a nickname

A man who gives you a nickname wants to be playful with you. It’s a way to be less formal and get closer. A nickname breaks the ice and helps you feel more comfortable with each other.