1. You Always Feel a Bit of Tension When You Are Together

This could be your intuition telling you that something is not right between you and your man.

You may not feel as comfortable as before, conversations may be forced, and loving gestures have disappeared.

Maybe you’re just having a bad day or you’ve just been dealing with a lot of personal issues. Don’t be too quick to judge the situation.

You will know if your concerns are valid, if the tension continues for a long period of time, and on a constant basis.

That is a great sign that you two are not as compatible as you thought.

2. He Is Being Extra Deceitful with You

If you feel like your partner is always hiding something from you, this could be a sign that your relationship is beginning to deteriorate.

Even if you don’t know what he’s hiding, maybe it’s time you listen to your intuition.

For example, have you become very secretive with all your electronic devices?

It can be suspicious if he always quickly hides his phone or any other device when you get close.

Has he recently changed all his passwords and now he doesn’t want to share them with you?

Do you find that he constantly lies to you about things that, in his words, are “no big deal”?

Did he lie about his Saturday night plans? Or did he give you the wrong location for the party he just went to?

He also can’t seem to look you in the eye, even when you’re talking to him.

This may indicate that he feels guilty because he is doing something wrong or maybe he’s about to break up with you and feels bad about it.

3. His Communication Is Less and Less

Is he always interacting with his phone when you’re together?

In a social setting, is he always talking to someone else or in another room?

Is he always in a hurry to leave when you hang out together?

He could be deliberately doing these things to avoid talking to you.

You can also see this in his body language.

Maybe he barely looks at you or always has his body turned away from you.

Is it much more difficult to start a conversation with him? And if he communicates with you, is it always too short and cutting?

Do you notice that he always prefers to send text messages instead of having video calls?

4. It Is No Longer So Sweet and Romantic

Was he the type to shower you with compliments, but now it’s hard to even get him to talk to you?

Maybe he stopped calling you by the special romantic nickname you had together.

But the biggest sign that he’s ready to give up is if he doesn’t regularly tell you that he loves you anymore.

Are you still his priority when it comes to important dates and celebrations?

Is he still trying hard to give you good birthday and Christmas gifts?

If he is thinking of ending things with you, he may not be as helpful as before when you share your problems with him. He has stopped feeling that hero instinct that you had initially activated in him.

Finally, physical contact is also very important in a relationship. Has he become less physically affectionate with you?

These are indisputable signs that he is wanting to get away from you. These are all crucial signs that your relationship is no longer a priority for him.

5. Makes No Effort to Resolve Conflicts

When he argues with you, you notice that he doesn’t try to solve the problem at all.

His unwillingness to sustain your relationship is very evident and is surely affecting you negatively.

Now is the time to ask yourself this important question: if you didn’t put any effort into the relationship, do you think it would survive?

Do you feel like you’re the only one carrying the weight of your relationship and working to fix its issues?

Based on the honest answer you get from yourself to these questions, you can determine what you should do next, for your own good.

6. He Is Not Really Interested in Your Life

Does he ask you less about what you’re doing? When you tell him about your work struggles, does he seem like he doesn’t care at all?

It is also possible that he doesn’t remember important dates and events, which you specifically told him in advance.

When these things happen, it’s common to feel very alone in your relationship.

It’s like he’s already broken up with you in his mind.

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