1. Men Love to Play
There is no denying that no matter how good your marriage might be, the everyday life of work, kids, sleep, and back to work, gets boring. Men like excitement, men love the chase, and, perhaps most of all, men like to play. Men will seek out other women who are not encumbered with children or those who make time in their schedule for fun. He is probably taking this woman to ball games, playing video games in her apartment, and dancing the night away. If you don’t make time for fun and games in your marriage, your man will look elsewhere for it and fall in love with someone else.
2. Men Want to Make Women Happy
There’s a truth that men live to make women happy. They want their woman to feel content, happy, and satisfied in bed. When a woman shows her man that she is constantly unhappy, and he doesn’t feel like he can fix it, he will look for a woman he can bring happiness to. Too many times, wives nag their husbands, are overly critical of them, and rarely tell them how happy they make them if every little thing isn’t perfect. When this happens, men will seek out women they can please and they often end up falling in love with someone else.
3. Men Love Sεx
Men live for sεx. If they aren’t doing it, they are thinking about it. Sometimes, things get bogged down in a marriage and sεx is put on the back burner. This is always a mistake because when the right woman comes along and begins to give your man all the sεx he wants, he is certain to take advantage of it. Many married men will find frequent sεx leads to them falling in love with someone else.
4. Men Love the Simple Life
Men don’t want drama, they aren’t interested in who is wearing the latest fashion, and they don’t want a complicated schedule. Men want to go to work, have some fun, relax, enjoy a sports game, and have sex. Women who complicate their husband’s life by expecting them to entertain guests every weekend, go out frequently or expect them to run the kids here and there while you are getting your hair and nails done will find that their husbands seek out women who make life easy for them.
5. Men Need Attention
Men still want it from their wives. If you are glued to your soap opera every evening or if you can’t put down your cell phone at the dinner table long enough to listen to your husband tell you about his day, you are setting yourself up for a world of hurt. Your husband deserves your attention and if you don’t give it to him, he will get it from another woman and fall in love with someone else faster than you can imagine.
6. Men Want to Win
This is the reason why sports are important to most men. They want to be a part of a winning team. Men need to feel like they are accomplishing something and that they are winners! Many men ¢нєαт because they feel like no matter what they do, they can’t win. If he stays home and helps with the housework, do you tell him how bad the yard looks? And when he spends all weekend working on the yard, do you tell him he’s a bum because he doesn’t help with the housework? When your husband can’t win at home, he will look for another game that he can win.
Sonia’s Final Thought: Marriage is a dance, a tricky tango that requires finesse, rhythm, and a lot of patience. If you want to keep your partner’s eyes from wandering, keep the spark alive, communicate, and for heaven’s sake, make time for fun. They didn’t say ‘happy spouse, happy house’ for nothing!
