Most people assume that the most obvious thing couples would do in the boudoir is explore physical intimacy.
This may be true, but it isn’t always the case. Because marriage is a true partnership, couples have a whole host of things, a few being mundane and others thrilling, that they tackle.
While intimacy is important in a marriage, there are other activities that couples pursue in bed that bring them closer to each other.
Take a look at what they are — you might find a few surprises here!
1. Have Disagreements
The safe bed is sometimes the place where disagreements are aired. This is especially true when you wish to have a private conversation that you do not share with your in-laws or kids. Often these are household disputes such as one partner feeling they’re shouldering more burden than the other when it comes to chores. Or perhaps it’s the time to nudge the spouse to take on more responsibilities around the house.
2. Unwind by Playing Games Together
The bedroom becomes a place where you truly relax not just by having a passionate moment but by playing games together. This can be anything from multi-player video games to Scrabble, UNO, or even Jenga. It keeps the relationship fun and devoid of tensions.
3. Giving Each Other Massages
Besides intimacy, couples often massage each other in bed. While this can be quite romantic, often, it’s purely practical—because let’s face it, as we age, we tend to develop aches and pains. But thankfully, a hot oil massage from your spouse can have you feeling great in no time at all.
4. Voice Your Fantasies
Couples often discuss fun ways to please each other in bed. It isn’t always a prelude to lovemaking because sometimes you are weary due to work and simply wish to discuss fantasies you intend to execute in the future.
5. Ask About Each Other’s Day
One more common thing you might do most frequently in bed is speak about your day and ask your beau about theirs. This is a great place to show your support and even discuss your finances together. It is also not uncommon for couples to talk about expenses and look for opportunities to increase the family’s income while in bed together.
