You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do.
Even if it seems unreal, in a world where every morning starts with an alarm that tells you that you have to be in a certain place at a certain time, we are free people. We are free people in thought and decision. But, even if God, when he left us on Earth, also left us with reason, even if we have dreams, as if something is pulling us in the opposite direction, it is causing us to make mistakes.
When it comes to elections, you have to keep in mind that you have options! When it comes to him, that special man, when he is the one who asks you the question, tries to think, no matter how many colonies of butterflies would walk through your stomach. Even if you are the one who would do anything to keep him close, be very careful that these sacrifices do not change you for the worse, that you trample on your healthy and correct principles. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t feel ready, even if he is. If he truly loves you, he will always respect your decisions and stay with you. If not, let it become a memory and don’t regret what it could have been … because all you do is postpone the inevitable … the end result will be the same.
We build our obligations to find relief, maybe … maybe a purpose in this world. I honestly think it would be much simpler if we let God find our purpose, so that we would just do our part and come to fulfill it. Sacrifices in a lifetime are useless if they do not get better, if they leave behind only wounds and only bitterness. Therefore, we must be very careful in our actions, which if they are wrong (and especially if we consciously choose the wrong), will lead us to evil.
You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do, anything that seems normal to others. You are not obliged to please another human being if by this you are obliged to do things that will make you dirty, that will bring you down, you are not obliged to do anything that is not good … and you are also not obliged to do what it’s good … so the choice is yours!
