But tell him once that you love him! What do you think you will lose?

Rather than bothering to glance at him when you meet, accidentally or not, than to sigh at the pictures he uploads on who knows what social network, than to see him flirting with other women, it wouldn’t better to take your heart in your teeth and tell him how you feel about him?

 

Maybe the man you “watched” hasn’t noticed you yet … or maybe yes, maybe he feels something … at least a kind of friendship, dear. Or maybe he feels much more than you imagined, maybe he feels the same things as you … but he is also silent and sees his life, because he doesn’t know in what waters you bathe, what you want.

 

Take your heart in your teeth and write him something nice on Facebook, then take him out of the house for a coffee and tell him openly what you have in mind. You have nothing to lose, because your relationship does not exist at this point. In the worst case, he can refuse … and what’s the matter? At least you have a starting point and an idea of ​​what to do from now on.

 

Do not delve into illusions when it is not the case. It is much better for you to know the truth than to build your own ideas, without that “culprit” having any idea. Choose the truth even if it is not to your liking because it is the only one that frees you and manages to make you happy in the end.

 

Maybe a refusal will make you sad for a moment and it will be unpleasant … but you will be able to move on. Plus, recognizing the feelings will free you from any kind of pressure you feel and will help you more than you can imagine.

 

And yet … what if it’s not a refusal?

 

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